Sitting on someone’s face can be awesome, because it gives your partner direct access to your nether parts. Isn’t it time we collectively explored the frontiers that lay just outside our norms? Here are eight cunnilingus positions you probably haven’t tried yet, but you and your partner will totally want to add to your bedroom repertoire. Ready to get your mouths going? Here are completely 32 toe-curling oral sex positions.The entire landscape of cunnilingus positions expands far beyond our go-tos, and it’s just waiting to be discovered. Set it to a random rhythm and let it ravish you. “If you want to experience oral stimulation on your own, use an oral simulation toy that uses suction, smooth circular motions, and a range of vibration speeds,” says certified sexologist Rebecca Alvarez Story, founder of Bloomi, who recommends Dame’s Aer Suction Vibrator. They will tell you what feels good and what doesn’t,” says Coleman. “Most importantly, pay attention to your partner’s body and reactions. If you’re working with a penis, suck and lick the head and up the shaft, gently tug on the balls, then work your way to a rhythmic sucking combined with hands on the shaft.

Use the tongue to caress the labia, and use suction,” says Coleman. Pay attention to the clit and do far less licking. Got your mouth between someone’s legs and don’t know what to do? If you’re working with a vulva, “slow down and take your time with it. A super-hot way to switch things up in the bedroom is to have oral be the main event.' “But when you do this, you’re missing out on an unexplored part of your sexuality and new ways to connect with your partners. “I think there’s a common misconception that most people equate oral with foreplay,” says sex and relationships coach Catherine Drysdale, creator of the Multi-Orgasmic course. Instead of making oral a precursor to penetration, appreciate it for its own glory. “For vulva owners, it can very often lead to more consistent and intense orgasms than penetration.' And if you’re into orgasms (so, all of us), oral can be a more reliable way to get there, especially if you're part of the large majority of people with vaginas who depend on clitoral stimulation to cum. “Oral sex is an amazing way to experience sexual pleasure,” says Nikki Coleman, PhD, a licensed psychologist with expertise in relationships and sexuality. It's just about *the* most intimate thing you can do with anyone.but that's part of what makes it feel so good.

When it comes to oral sex (both giving and receiving), it's easy to be nervous.

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